Disneyland 91024Cade and Ella are on spring break this week so Yan and I decided to spend at least part of their break on a multi-day family trip to California Adventure and Disneyland. We woke up early Sunday morning and hit the road by 7 am. Arriving at California Adventure before it opened was all part of the plan. And it was worth it. To watch my kids’ barely contained enthusiasm erupt into skipping, jumping and hopping through the park once the gates were opened warmed my soul.

Yan stayed up late the night before, planning our day. To put it plainly, my wife is a logistical magician. We were on a tight schedule which left little room for error. But Yan had it down to a science. No… more of an art, actually. We were zig-zagging through the park at her direction, stepping right onto the rides only to see a long line had suddenly developed by the time we got off. Occasionally she would tell me which ride to take the kids to next and give me a short deadline within which to meet her there before sprinting off to secure fast passes to be beautifully woven into the strategic tapestry of her master design throughout the day.

For those of you who know me, you can probably guess this approach to… well, just about anything… is not in my nature. I am much more of an improviser and a take it as it comes sort of guy. For those of you who know Yan, I’m sure it doesn’t surprise you at all that she had our day planned down to the minute (I kid you not – the minute) or that her maneuvers were as complex in their execution as they were effective in squeezing the absolute most from every single one of those minutes. It was as if all the other park guests were moving in slow motion, little more than static scenery on our warp speed tour through the park.

At the end of the day, we walked to our hotel – right across the street! – and settled in for the night. Cade said he wasn’t feeling well so we got him fed and tucked into bed with Ella while Yan went to work crafting the next day’s operations order as I rubbed her tired feet. But Cade wasn’t kidding. Soon he bolted upright and began throwing up on his bed. Yan sprang out of our bed and got behind him (she’s obviously the pro here). I jumped up, grabbed the nearest container – which happened to be a cup – and came around in front of Cade (amateur move on all levels there). Just as the panic set in that my little cup was filling up way too fast, things went from bad to worse. Cade began projectile vomiting.

I can only guess that the level of Newtonian force aimed directly at me was some kind of scientific record. And I must admit, there was a brief period of time when I wasn’t sure if I would stand my ground or break and run. But I’m proud to report that my sense of fatherly-duty somehow prevailed over my sense of self-preservation and I held my position even with all hell breaking lose around – and on – me. The aftermath wasn’t pretty but I had seen the elephant, withstood the test of fire, and although a long shower was called for, at least I was able to towel off afterward with my parental honor still intact.

Cade was feeling fine by the next morning and begged us not the cancel the rest of the trip. So off to Disneyland we went. I wasn’t sure just how much of Sunday’s logistical magic was luck, but yesterday erased any doubts I may have had about Yan’s prowess in amusement park supremacy and ultimate Disney dominance. And I think my favorite thing of all was when Yan announced to me that she had scheduled in some “free time” for us between 1:33 pm to 3:04 pm. Imagine, free time at an amusement park. Hilarious!

The only glitch came at the electric light parade when the adults my kids had squeezed in front of told Cade and Ella they were only allowed to stand behind them, not in front of them, because all the space in front of them was “reserved” to avoid congestion and/or an obstructed view. Now, I’ve got to pause and say here, while I don’t really understand adults who go to Disneyland without kids, I certainly don’t judge or resent them. And I know there are plenty of people who do just that. But it’s not something I get. If it weren’t for my kids, I wouldn’t be fighting those crowds, spending that money, and standing in line after line after line. No thanks. But fine. To each his own. What I absolutely can’t understand, however, is any adult telling a child to get behind them during a parade. I mean, really?!

But I digress. Suffice it to say, Yan’s plans didn’t account for these few bad apples who somehow mistook Disneyland for a kid free zone, but it did give me a chance to be more than just the “carrier of tired children and other heavy things” and use my improv skills to politely – or at least more politely than they deserved – remind those grinches what Disneyland is all about and in so doing, ensure my kids had an opportunity to see and enjoy the parade (which, by the way, did not in any way affect those other people’s opportunity to see the parade since my kids were barely 4 feet tall – that’s a fact; I’d seen them being measured all day long).

So at just under 20 miles and just north of 40,000 steps later (thank you, Fitbit, for that morsel of information) we headed back home after a two-day, physically demanding, emotionally rewarding, and don’t forget biologically trying, family trip to the happiest place on earth. We made so many great new memories with Cade and Ella and I got to marvel at my wife doing things supercomputers can only aspire to accomplish. Being a family man can sure be exhausting and sometimes even gross, but man oh man am I glad this is my life.

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Cade's 9th birthday 91024My son turned 9 years old on Sunday. We celebrated, at his request, with just a small family gathering. Cade loves family. He feels most comfortable when he is with family. His incredibly deep sense of family connection is one of the many things about him I have always adored and admired.

His grandparents (my parents) hosted a swim-barbecue party the day before his birthday since I was scheduled to be working the law firm’s “got guardians?” booth at Sierra Madre’s Wistaria festival on his actual birthday. Yan’s parents were there as well, along with Cade’s two aunts, Wan and Tessa, his uncle Matt, and his two cousins, Erin and Clayton.

Cade, now in third grade, has struggled mightily with reading over the last few years. But due to a lot of hard work on everyone’s part – and so much of that credit has to go to Cade himself – he is nearly caught up to grade level. He really has worked, and worked, and worked at it and I couldn’t be more proud of him.

He continues to tell me he is the “stupidest kid in [his] class” but I’m also seeing supplementary flashes of self-confidence come through, too. He is extremely sensitive and competitive… not necessarily the greatest combo. If he is not the best at something, he often feels like he must be the worst. And I know he’s been acutely aware of his own struggles academically so far in school, relative to his classmates. His powerful perceptive abilities can, on occasion, intensify his insecurities.

And speaking of perception, that kid can read a room in an instant. Upon walking in, no matter how many others are present, he’ll not only know who’s there but also what they’re wearing, what they’re doing, and even immediately tune into how they’re feeling. It’s really something to behold. I’m just in awe of his visual acumen. For example, he flipped through the instruction manual for the big, intricate, Lego X-Wing Yan and I got him as a birthday present and then went right to work. In fact, he got lost in it; tuning out everything else until he had the craft constructed just a short time later.

For someone who excels at spatial logic and visual cues, I can certainly see how reading difficulties have been especially frustrating and unnerving. But to be honest, as hard as it’s been, I’m actually a little glad Cade’s struggled. Nothing much worth having comes easily in life. The sooner Cade learns that, the better as far as I’m concerned. Ten years from now I hope Cade is in college (wow, that just seems crazy) studying science, or engineering, or whatever his gifts and intelligence lead him towards, with the humbleness which only comes out of adversity and the poise only attainable from overcoming it.

Man, do I love that boy.
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Community Outreach 91024With the new year a full three weeks old now, the presidential inauguration in the rear view window, and the holiday hangover fading in memory, I took a look back at some of my favorite home moments from 2016. Here are a few of them:

While eating dinner as a family one evening, Cade abruptly announced, “I like it doggy style.” You can imagine the horrified and shocked glances Yan and I exchanged with each other, both simultaneously wondering how our 8-year-old even knew about such things. Then, before we could react, he put his hands behind his back, lowered his head, and began eating directly from his plate. Finally, he exclaimed, “See, it’s just so much more efficient!” Yan and I burst out laughing and shared an immense sense of relief that the seriousness of our conversation with Cade that evening needed to go no deeper than proper table manners.

Ella started writing prompts in her first-grade class this year. One of the questions from her teacher was, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Ella’s written response was simply and succinctly, “Not a lawyer.” Seeing this come home in her classwork folder one day really tickled me. So I had to ask her why she didn’t want to be a lawyer. She replied, “Because I want to be a veterinarian.” So I asked the obvious, “Why didn’t you just write down you wanted to be a veterinarian, then?” Ella said, matter-of-factly, “Because I don’t want anyone to even think I’m going to be a lawyer.” Okay, I get it. But I must say, that was a very lawyeresque way of answering the question!

On the way to school one morning, Cade caused me another momentary panic. Out of the blue, he made the comment, “When I grow up, I want to get lots of booty.” Completely shocked, I couldn’t form a response and only managed to stammer and stutter a bit. Then, after a brief moment of interrnal reflection, Cade continued, “Daddy, do pirates still get paid in booty?” Whew! Another bullet dodged. I feel so much better equipped to have a conversation about the pros and cons of piracy as a career choice than I do about having an in-depth discussion regarding “booty” as it relates to the birds and the bees at this point in my children’s lives.

Finally, the newest addition to the family, Alexa (the Amazon personal voice assistant), has created many moments of laughter – and yes, we were laughing at her, not with her – in our home. However, there’s one in particular that sticks in my mind. Shortly before Thanksgiving last year, we were all discussing our previous year’s delicious smoked turkey and whether we should prepare the turkey that way again. So to get some other ideas I asked, “Alexa, how do you cook a turkey?” The response was, “The recipe or ingredient I found for turkey is: turkey.” We all got a big laugh and it turned out Alexa was technically right– turkey did indeed turn out to be the main ingredient in our Thanksgiving day turkey.

Being a parent is hard. There are lots of moments of frustration and worry. But thankfully, the moments which really stick with me are the ones of joy and laughter. Here’s looking forward to more of those great moments throughout 2017.

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grand-tetons-christmas-2016Yan and I certainly try to follow this sage advice. Though it was easier to do before we had kids, it is more rewarding to experience traveling with them, and see earth’s remarkable places through their eyes.

We spent Christmas this year (and the week following) in Jackson Hole, Wyoming – a place I’d never been before. It was beautiful and rugged, and everything I pictured Wyoming would be. We spent a day inside Yellowstone National Park, another in Grand Teton National Park, and another on the National Elk Reserve. They were all spectacular. But my favorite day, by far, was the day we went snowmobiling along the Greys River in the Bridger National Forest.

Cade and Ella alternately rode with either Yan, me or Yan’s sister, Tessa (Tessa Yi Yi as they call her), who accompanied us. I must say, though, riding with me must have been the highlight for the kids as I was the one more than delighted to meet their need for speed, consistently pushing my sled to 50 or 55 miles per hour (much to Yan’s horror). We rode about 30 miles into the wilderness before turning back and it was as remote as it was amazing. I’ll never forget it.

Before the holidays, we celebrated my joyful, determined, resilient, artistic, congenial daughter’s seventh trip around the sun. She eats up birthdays like the Cookie Monster devours Chips Ahoy, so we began the last third of December at full throttle.

Then after returning from Jackson Hole late on the night of January 30, we went to a couple of different New Year’s Eve parties the next day. It was special to close out 2016 and say hello to 2017 with so many good friends. It brought home the fact that Yan and I are close to numerous, outstanding people. I was really feeling the love for them as we hung out with each other while also sharing the evening with all our children. And no, my feelings of love were not alcohol induced just in case that’s what you’re thinking. I happened to be the designated driver in my family!

So, while traveling to new places is one of the true joys of living on this spectacular planet, it is really the people we share our experiences with which touch the heart. I hope you felt some of that, too, over the holidays. And I sincerely wish you the happiest of new years.
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The political conventions are behind us and we officially have our two major party candidates for the presidential election this November. Do you know how the outcome might affect your estate plan? Trump’s current proposal is to eliminate the federal estate and gift taxes altogether. Clinton’s current proposal, on the opposite end of the spectrum, isn’t very detailed but would appear to dramatically decrease the current gift and estate tax exemptions, eliminate the yearly adjustment for inflation, and significantly increase the gift and estate tax rates.

What does this mean? If either proposal becomes law there will be substantial impacts to estate plans everywhere. The effect of Trump’s proposal would be to limit the tax benefits of certain irrevocable trusts and grantor-retained annuity trusts, while the effect of Clinton’s proposal would be an increased tax burden on millions of Americans which would necessitate the implementation of advanced estate planning strategies on their behalves. You should know the facts about how each candidate would like to change the estate planning landscape, but in no way should this be interpreted as my endorsement of one over the other. This is far from the only issue in play.

I am going to delve into this even deeper, though, at the risk of offending “polite company” because although this blog is a means for me to communicate with my circles, I am always conscious that it will be a big part of the legacy I leave my children. I believe in being real with you, and I want Cade and Ella to know the real me– what I was thinking, feeling, experiencing during the events of my life. So I’m going to dare to attempt to illuminate what’s going on inside of me during this presidential campaign of 2016. If that makes you uncomfortable or you feel it is simply not polite to talk politics, stop reading now. Otherwise…

I have always voted for the person, not the party. I am proudly independent and base my vote on who I think would be best for the country. Period. I have, in fact, voted for republicans, democrats, and even third party candidate before based on that principle. Yan tells me a vote for a third party candidate is just throwing my vote away. But as someone who spent time in the army, ready and willing to lay down my life for our constitution, I believe the only vote thrown away is the one not cast. So I will be casting a vote… for someone. But I’m having a hard time getting comfortable voting for either Trump or Clinton. Like many Americans, I see deep character flaws in each of them and little evidence either of them is worthy of the privilege, honor, and responsibility of leading this great country of ours.

This is an incredibly important election, however, so perhaps I should just cast my vote based on the issues. I am very much in favor of marriage equality for anybody and everybody (or perhaps to put it better, I’m simply in favor of equality for everyone). This one issue would seem to push me to vote democratic as the republican party wants to continue telling people how and who to love. On the other hand, I believe the current administration’s foreign policies – endorsed and/or engineered by Clinton – have dangerously weakened America. So that issue pushes back toward the republicans who I believe have a stronger approach to those who would destroy us. In fact, the issues most important to me are pretty evenly split between the republican and democratic platforms (probably why I’m independent).

I have not been this perplexed about an election, ever. I look at my children and I feel the weight of my decision. Just like all parents, my children’s future drives me. I know the decisions we make today will either make things better for our children tomorrow or leave them with an even bigger mess to clean up. I want them to reap rewards rather than having to pay a price for being the generation which follows us. I know you do, too. And many, many brave souls have sacrificed everything to ensure we have a voice in what kind of future we leave for our children.

So I know I will be voting, even if I don’t yet know for whom. And I will have my kids with me when I do, just as always, so they can see democracy in action, close up and personal. I will tell them, just as I always do, why it is so important to participate in the process. And I will talk to them about the issues in this particular election, too, so they can begin thinking about and forming their own political views – and I don’t really care if those views are in line with mine or not, as long as they’re thinking for themselves.

Marc and his daughter Ella (3-years old)The last couple of week have been really special. I’ve been dropping Cade off for academic camp (I know… poor kid) at Justine Sherman and Associates in Sierra Madre at 8 am. Then it’s just a hop skip and jump over to my office to wait for the van to pick Ella up at 9 am for Camp Shi’ini – and starting this week, I’ll drop her at gymnastics camp at Club Champion.

So Ella and I have nearly an hour together, just the two of us, each morning. She has taken it upon herself to be my assistant, getting the office ready for the day, turning on all the lights and lamps, watering the plants, setting up the coffee station and even making a first cup of coffee for me. Of course my favorite part of it all is spending the time with her. We have the chance to talk and connect with each other, uninterrupted, at the beginning of each day.

Ella Luree has a zest for life I truly admire. When she wants to do something she goes for it, full throttle. There’s nothing she will let stop her. She is also predisposed to see the lighter side of life. Almost no matter what happens, she’s easy to laugh and quick to play. Just being around her lifts my spirits, helps me lighten up, and warms my heart. I can’t imagine a better way to start each day than to spend it with her.

Ella just finished kindergarten and had a bit of an up and down year. It was a hard transition for her from pre-school in terms of finding and fitting in with new friends. Academically, though, she caught on quick, reading and writing like the blazes. Because Field Elementary is literally right down the street from my office, I get to drop my kids off at school each day. Last year Cade was off like a flash to find his friends. So I would walk Ella to the kinder playground and wait with her for the bell.

One of Ella’s friends – the ringleader of her group of friends in fact – would sometimes say to Ella, “you’re not seriously going to wear THAT to school today, are you?”, or, “princesses are stupid, why would you wear a Princess Else shirt?” I had no idea this kind of thing started in kinder! I would counsel Ella about sticking by her choices and not worrying about what someone else thinks, but invariably she would feel awful and want to change. Occasionally these interactions would lead to Ella lashing out physically at this little girl or another of her friends in the group who was “following the leader.”

My approach has never been to get in the middle of Ella’s relationships, but rather to support her in finding her own strength from the sidelines. I believe she has to choose and manage her own friendships. On the one hand I want Ella to learn that violence does not solve interpersonal relationship issues. That’s a terribly important lesson. But on the other hand I am proud of her for standing up to the bullying directed at her by these other girls. It’s not an easy line to walk. I just hope I can help coach my smart, tough, driven little girl to find the right balance between never letting anybody push her around yet being peaceful, sympathetic and kind to others.
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USS_Midway;024105This weekend was busy, as usual, but really great, too. It started off with Yan and me picking the kids up from Camp Shi’ini during their lunch break, dropping Ella off in Silver Lake to have a sleep over with her cousin, Erin, and then heading down to San Diego. First of all, the days of the 2-hour drive to San Diego appear to be over. It took us twice that long to get down there Friday afternoon (and almost as long again coming back Saturday afternoon). But once we arrived – Cade and I for an overnight adventure on the USS Midway with his cub scout pack and Yan for an overnight adventure at a Gas Lamp District hotel with some of the other cub scout moms – the fun really got going.

We went aboard the giant aircraft carrier after it had closed to the general public for the day. We were given a safety briefing and orientation, and extensive “behind the scenes” tours into areas of the ship we weren’t allowed to go into when Cade, his grandfather, and I spent a day on the ship a year or so ago. The tour guides were mostly retired or active duty service members – many of whom had served on the Midway – and full of knowledge and stories. For dinner we went through the chow line on the mess deck. We then got to explore the ship on our own for a bit before settling in to the enlisted men’s berths (much like coffins stacked one on top of each other) for a short, claustrophobic night’s sleep.

Reveille sounded at 6 am promptly followed by breakfast (more navy chow – not quite the mimosas and omelet station I just knew Yan was enjoying). We toured even more of the ship and then got into the flight simulator to experience a dogfight. Cade and I were together and worked as a team, one of us as pilot and the other as gunner. We were shot down multiple times without ever bringing down one of the bad guys. But after being tossed around, turned upside down, and shaken up for three or four minutes in the simulator, we were both ready and willing to give someone else a try.

After reassembling the family back in LA Saturday night, I was able to get a good night sleep. Sunday Yan and I dropped the kids off at Kids Club so we could spent the day cleaning and touch-up painting one of our units in Echo Park in order to turn the keys over to a new tenant that afternoon. It was hard but satisfying work and we were both really impressed with how great the apartment looked when we were done with it. We walked down the street for dinner and drinks at The Holloway (just in case we needed to be reminded we were the least hip people in Echo Park last evening) before picking up the kids and heading home.

I loved my experience on the Midway with Cade. The slogan the cadre kept repeating to the scouts was, “freedom isn’t free” and I believe that’s an important lesson, even for youngsters. Cade had a great time and I hope it’s a memory he’ll cherish, as I certainly will. Then I loved working on that apartment with Yan. What we’ve built – and are continuing to build – together amazes me. We’ve both said creating our small portfolio of income properties is probably something neither of us would have tackled on our own, but through each other and with each other we’ve done it. As investments go, we feel like we’ve got something special which will become part of the legacy we leave for our children… as will memories of an overnight outing on one of the most powerful warships of its day… as will everything else we do with and for each other as a family. And that’s really what it’s all about.
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Pride and JoyImagine our surprise as Yan and I returned from vacation to find a letter from the school district saying Cade had been accepted into the GATE (Gifted and Talented Education) Program for PUSD. We were surprised NOT because we didn’t think Cade was qualified – from an early age it was obvious he was highly intelligent and we’ve always been awed by the way in which his mind works. No, we were surprised because we never expected Cade to actually participate in the test intended to identify gifted kids, administered by the school district.

We knew they were testing 2nd graders for the GATE program sometime near the end of the school year but we didn’t really put much thought into it. One of our many struggles with Cade scholastically is that he doesn’t much care for tests and so, more often than not, he simply refuses to take them. We assumed that would happen with the GATE test and quite frankly, we were much more concerned with getting him to sit for, focus on, and actually participate in his regular classroom tests.

Because it wasn’t really on our radar, we didn’t learn until after the results began being released just how big a deal GATE is in the Field Elementary School parent community. Everybody seemed to be asking everybody else if their kid got in (and we still didn’t know Cade had been accepted so our response was always, “Nope, did yours?”) Only at that point did we become aware that many kids had been studying for the test for quite some time; something we didn’t even know was possible. And there were some parents who were even disappointed their child didn’t get into GATE. We weren’t disappointed, but then again we never had the expectation Cade would be accepted.

After we got the results, however, I felt my pride swell at Cade’s accomplishment. The school district had officially recognized what I had known all along: Cade is indeed gifted. I have made no secret of the fact that Cade also has a sensory processing disorder which has made learning to read and write incredibly hard for him (and made it incredibly hard for his teachers to see his potential, too, as Cade routinely refuses to do his work in school). I am gratified that he was willing to participate in, and able to succeed on, the GATE test. And I am elated my brilliant little boy who suffers from an immense lack of self-confidence, largely due to his learning disorder, now has some independent validation that he’s not “the dumbest kid in class” as he so often feels and verbalizes.

Pride is a funny thing. I’m sure I wouldn’t have felt ‘less’ proud of Cade had he never been accepted into GATE. Yet I’m filled with pride that he was. Hmmm. And pride is powerful, too. I feel it in my core. I see it manifested in others. I believe parental pride stems from our desire to support our children to be their best selves and is a natural part of parenthood. But if not channeled with caution, I fear it may lead to unreasonable expectations for our children or manifest itself within them as feelings of being a disappointment to us. As such, parental pride is a bit of a tightrope to straddle, but one it seems, is nearly impossible to avoid. I’ll have to tread carefully here.
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chinese ritualistic burningMy wife’s paternal grandmother died last week and the funeral was held Friday. The funeral director conducted the service in Chinese so I didn’t understand much of what was being said, but there were obvious similarities – as well as striking differences – when compared to the traditional “western style” funerals I’m more familiar with.

First, the similarities. Black is the color of choice for those attending the funeral. There is a formal viewing (though it takes place in groups based on relationship to the decedent). There is a separate funeral, funeral procession, and graveside service. It is a time of mourning and sadness, and an opportunity to show respects and say goodbyes.

The stark differences between a Chinese funeral and its western counterpart are fascinating, as are most of the differences between the cultures. In a general sense, I would describe a Chinese funeral as, “lots of bowing, lots of chanting, lots of ritual.” The funeral director led the intricate, formal procedures with the deft hand of an orchestra conductor. There was lots of choreography going on throughout, with various groupings of descendants standing up, sitting down, lighting incense, and bowing (lots and lots of bowing), all at any given time.

Spiritualism was mixed with materialism as we were each told to pick up and hold play money, fake gold and jewelry, model houses and cars, replica cell phones, and even dolls representing servants as we bowed before the casket. Then we were marched outside to burn all these items – in a very specific order – in a huge fire as is custom, to send off the departed with tokens of wealth. Tradition holds that items burned at the funeral (and also at the annual day of the dead) make their way to the underworld and provide comfort and status to the burners’ departed ancestors.

As intellectually interesting as I found the whole affair, it still had a very real, human impact for me, too. Yan’s grandmother did not speak English so I would always say hello to her and attempt a bit of chit chat in my broken Chinese at family gatherings. She never ceased to be tickled by my efforts and so we related to each other in a light, playful manner which I will miss. And I felt the grief barely contained in my normally stoic father-in-law. When I offered him my condolences at the funeral he gave me an awkward sort of half-hug which came from genuine vulnerability. And from a man who does not publicly show affection to anyone outside of his grandchildren, it was easily the most intimate connection we’ve ever shared.

It was also my children’s first experience with the death of someone they knew. It was an up close and personal, literal, front row seat to the circle of life. They asked lots of questions, some of which I wasn’t able to answer. But I hope I was able to help give them some level of comfort with, and take away some of their fear of, the concept of death.
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tracy arm fjord, alaskaI just got back from a cruise to Alaska. We first spent a couple of days in Seattle – what a great city! I’ve been there once before, something like 20 years ago, for only a couple of days that time too. It’s definitely a place I’d like to be able to go back to again and spend more time. But the highlight of the trip was the beyond beautiful, majestically stunning, extremely wild Alaska.

I didn’t know what to expect. When Yan suggested we take the family on a cruise to Alaska my first thought was, “That sounds … cold.” And it was. But not unbearably so by any means. Certainly not like it must be in winter. And I suppose that’s a big part of why the glaciers are melting at an ever increasing rate – alarmingly so (but that’s a discussion for another time and place).

What I found was a new, amazing part of the world I had yet to experience. For those of you who know I lived on a sailboat when I first moved to LA, it won’t surprise you to learn I love, love, love being on the water. So sailing, even on a gigantic cruise ship, soothes my soul. And the scenery, oh the scenery! I could scarcely leave the deck rail while we were underway through the fjords (and with the sun up from 5:30 am to 10:00 pm, there was plenty to see). I was mesmerized by Alaska’s stunning, untamed wilderness revealing just a hint of its extensive breadth to me.

Wildlife – and I’m talking top of the food chain wildlife – was our constant companion. We saw pods of various types of whales every day. We saw dozens of bald eagles. On a day trip into the Yukon we saw several bears, close up and personal from the (relative) safety of our car. We hiked through rain forests and badlands. We beheld glaciers from both the ship and on foot. We felt the pull and promise of this remarkable land called Alaska.

I got to visit a new part of the world, which is always a treat. I got to focus on my family which, as hard as it is to travel with two little ones, is even more meaningful. And I got to experience an unexpected, intense connection to mother earth. She is at once truly beautiful, mighty, and dangerous. Through Alaska I gained a new sense of love and respect for her. I hope my kids did too.
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